by esledge Sat Aug 21, 2021 8:44 pm
Your sentence is correct. In the neither X nor Y structure, the noun closer to the verb dictates whether the verb should be singular or plural. Neither...nor is a correlative conjunction, not a noun, so by definition it's not the subject: Sam and my friends are.
All of the following are correct:
Neither Sam nor my friends want to return. (Match the number of the verb and the closest noun.)
Neither my friends nor Sam wants to return. (same as above)
My friends or Sam wants to return. (same rule for or in the subject)
Sam or my friends want to return. (same as above)
Sam and my friends want to return. (Plural because and makes a compound subject, regardless of noun order.)
My friends and Sam want to return. (Plural because and makes a compound subject, regardless of noun order.)
The original aunts example was fundamentally different: neither wasn't act as a conjunction, it was acting as a pronoun, so neither was the subject, not aunts, which were just the object of the preposition. This really is more of an answer to Jason, the poster above you, but the way to read it is:
Neither (one) of my aunts ... wants to return.
Wants is singular there because one aunts wants to never return, and neither does the other one!
Emily Sledge
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